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The Case for Doing Silly, Frivolous Things, especially If They Involve Books

       There’s a quiet kind of magic in doing things that serve absolutely no useful purpose — other than making your heart ridiculously happy. As cozy mystery readers, we already understand this better than most. We willingly step into fictional towns where everyone knows your name, the tea is always hot, the cats are unusually intelligent, and the biggest problem of the day is usually solved by page 312. And honestly? That’s not frivolous. That’s survival. Reading one more chapter when you should be doing something else. Lighting a candle before you open a book. Rereading a favorite mystery because you already know it will make you feel safe, comforted, and quietly delighted. None of these things are “productive” in the traditional sense. But they are restorative. They remind us who we are when the world feels too loud. Joy doesn’t need to justify itself. It doesn’t need a moral lesson or a measurable outcome. Sometimes joy exists simply because it ...

When Reading Stops Being Fun and why I'm changing that

Stop me if you've been here before.... You're finally getting away, going on vacation, and you're thinking - yes, think of all the reading I'm going to do! For me, it used to look like this—I’d gather a stack of books. Not one or two, but twenty. Maybe twenty-five. A full, ambitious pile that reflected not just who I was, but who I thought I should be: more well-read, more disciplined, more “on top” of my reading life. I told myself I’d finally have the time. That I’d sit for hours, uninterrupted, moving from one book to the next with focus and intention. And then reality would arrive. A chapter here. A few pages there. Maybe a longer stretch if it rained. But nowhere near the marathon I had imagined. For a long time, that gap felt like failure. The Hidden Pressure We Put on Ourselves As an author—especially an indie author—it’s easy to blur the line between passion and performance. Reading becomes more than enjoyment. It turns into: Research Market awarenes...